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David Bruce Murray
Aug 25, 2007
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In The Name Of Christ

Waitresses already know “church people” to be the worst tippers in restaurants. Add the word “jerk” to the list of ways so called “Christian” people are shooting themselves in the foot.

Danny Jones has a recent blog entry that passes on the observations of a venue building manager.

Just this past week, the manager of a 8,000-seat venue told me that while he appreciated promoters using his facility to hold Gospel concerts, he was very upset with the manner in which his staff was treated by the people who visited his arena.

No, he wasn’t talking about the artists. He was talking about the actions of several fans.

He went on to explain that his ushers were verbally assaulted on everything from parking issues, ticket prices, seating arrangements, concession prices, building temperatures. And it wasn’t so much that people were complaining. It was the demanding, holier-than-thou attitudes that were exhibited. He even mentioned that one usher literally went home in tears because she had been yelled at and publicily humiliated because she was doing her job: a man was sitting in a wrong reserved seat and he was raising a loud stink because he had to move.

Both the ticket and seat were plainly marked.

Imagine the nerve of the person who informed that usher that someone was sitting in their seat! Someone buys a $20 ticket and expects to sit in the seat assigned on the ticket? How dare they!

Danny goes on to describe his own observations at a secular event where the crowd was well behaved. (I couldn’t help but think that the same sort of hypocritical Christians Danny was describing initially would find fault with him for attending a secular event.)

On a related note, over at Averyfineline, there’s an ongoing discussion and an associated “contest” regarding popular T-shirts and caps that give the fundamental cause of Christianity a slap in the face.

Here’s one more. How often do you attempt to enter a large chain store such as Wal*Mart or Kmart, only to be approached by some church group raising money? Now try to imagine what sort of perception you’d form if you were a non-Christian who simply wanted to go shopping without being hassled.

I was talking with a friend of mine a few days ago about the stubbornness and bad attitudes that are sometimes put on display, and she said, “Well, you know how church people are.” I said, “Yes, I know a lot of church people are like that. Real Christians aren’t that way, but a lot of church people are.” (I believe I owe Scott Whitener credit for that line. I know I didn’t come up with it on my own.)

It brings up a good point, though. Real Christians should be the best tippers. They should only complain when there’s a legitimate cause to complain, not over some petty issue. They should treat those they meet with respect rather than a condescending, holier-than-thou attitude. They wouldn’t cheapen the name of Christ by associating it with a beer logo or infringing on the legal trademarks of an established company. They wouldn’t DARE portray Christ’s church as being so needy it has to resort to begging from non-Christians met randomly at a shopping mall.

Or would they?

8 Responses to "In The Name Of Christ"

1 | Susan Unthank

August 25th, 2007 at 3:47 pm

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Having worked in retail and with the public during my 50 years (or more) on this earth, I can safely say that none of the character traits listed above are unique to Christians. If the same concert setting went on with another group of people you would probably find the same things going on. It’s easy for the world to judge the whole of Christianity on the actions of a few. Much like the actions of a few will give an ethnic minority a bad name. Like it or not Christianity is a minority.

I quickly tire of those who try to attribute these types of actions to Christians only. I’ve seen plenty of organizations sell their wares outside of the local Wal-Mart (the local schools being the most notorious) without being said to cheapen the name of their organization or be accused of begging.

Needless to say, as Christians we should make a better effort to not act in a rude manner at any time.

2 | quartet-man

August 26th, 2007 at 10:00 am

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Susan is correct that the behavior is not exclusive to Christians only. I have a lot of years in retail as well. However, sadly people remember the times these things are done by Christians because we are supposed to be different. Also, like it or not, there seem to be a greater concentration of this behavior by church people.
I think church people tend to often be tighter with their money, expect things for free or a discount, and have more demands in how things should be.

3 | Susan Unthank

August 26th, 2007 at 6:21 pm

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I disagree that church people have more demands, but I do agree that we are supposed to be different and that people just remember it more when it is a Christian that commits the act.

4 | admin

August 26th, 2007 at 11:25 pm

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Susan,
You’re absolutely right that non-Christians have an equal (or even greater) share of jerks. My point in this whole article is in regards to people who set themselves up for it.

A group of fifteen people will pray over their meal in a restaurant, and then leave a $3 tip…total.

The world should view the church as a benefactor of society in general, not as yet another organization that’s constantly holding its hand out. A church should fund its own programs without walking up to total strangers and asking for assistance…especially when that assistance is for a trip that equates to a vacation for a group within the church. Even if it’s for a mission trip with honorable goals, they’re still asking non-Christians to give them money so they can go convert another set of non-Christians somewhere else.

In contrast, non-church organizations have an entirely different mission from that of the church. It’s hard to cheapen what isn’t even there.

5 | Susan Unthank

August 27th, 2007 at 12:09 am

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I guess we will just disagree on the Wal-Mart issue (the same could be said of the school system – they should not ask those who no longer have children in the system to contribute — :)

6 | admin

August 27th, 2007 at 12:20 am

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I’d be in favor of that!!

7 | Chuck Peters

August 27th, 2007 at 10:09 am

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I have been both a “Christian” and a “church people”.. Many times they are two different animals. The world sees them as one in the same,.. and is anxious to attack at any chance.

Back when I would get drunk and attend rock concerts.. I could be just as rude and obnoxious as any “church people.”

8 | Clarence Grigsby

September 4th, 2007 at 1:24 am

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Back in the 90′s when my little world was much more stable, I would buy advance tickets for the next year at NQC. I always hoped that the ladies selling tickets were born again already because some of the people in line were LOUSY witnesses. One year, I was about the tenth person in line. All nine people in front of me were dissatisfied with their seats for next year and berated the lady selling the tickets. The worst were the men who would call their wives over so they could each gripe in one of the poor woman’s ears. I realized that there was nothing she could do about what was available. I also saw that she looked like she was on the verge of tears. I decided that even if she put me in the rafters that I was going to smile and say “wonderful!”

Well, I get to the front of the line and ask for four tickets for Thursday and Friday.

“The best I can do is…” and she named some seats in the 100 section and braced herself, waiting for the backlash. They were basically the same seats we had that year and they were great! I quickly gave her the money and let her know I was very happy to get those seats for the next year.

“Really?” she said. “Everybody’s been complaining about those seats!”

People were getting offered the best seats I’ve ever had at NQC, except for the nights I got third row back in ’01, and they were acting like they were getting hung on a hook from the scoreboard! What did they want, Dr. Buck’s chair?

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